DOs | | DONT's |
DO exchange business cards after introductions. | | DON'T sit until invited to sit down. |
DO expect a Lithuanian to try to protest if you give them a gift. Explain that it's just a little something and offer it again until they accept. | | DON'T try to schedule meetings in July and August, which are common vacation months. |
DO bring a gift for your hosts, such as chocolates, liquor, flowers, or fruit. | | DON'T start eating until the host begins or until you are invited to do so. |
DO be aware that you might have to remove your shoes before entering Lithuanian home. | | DON'T put your hands in your pockets or sit with an ankle resting on the other knee. Both are considered poor etiquette. |
DO not be late more then 15 minutes. | | DON'T give yellow chrysanthemums, as they are used for funerals. |
DO wait for a woman to extend her hand first. | | DON'T put your elbows on the table. |
DO open your gift upon receipt. | | DON'T move to a first name basis until invited to do so. |
DO finish all the food on your plate. | | DON'T remain seated while greeting someone. Stand up! |
DO indicate that you are done eating by putting the fork and knife parallel across the right side of the plate. | | DON'T make jokes about Lithuanian culture. Lithuanians are very proud of their culture, so to make a joke about it would be in poor taste. |
DO compliment the host and finish everything served to you. | | DON'T ask personal questions. It may seem intrusive. |
DO tip about 10% of the bill. That is customary, but not obligatory. | | DON'T give a baby gift before a baby is born; it's bad luck. |
DO give flowers in odd numbers, not even. Even numbers of flowers are for funeral. | | DON'T smile unless you mean it. In Lithuania, smiling a lot can be seen as insincere. |
DO dress conservatively for business occasions. A suit is acceptable for men, and women should wear fashionable yet conservative clothes. | | DON'T shake hands or greet someone over a threshold. Go into the room first, and then exchange handshakes. |
DO arrive on time. Lateness might indicate that you don't respect your hosts. | | DON‘T mix Baltic capitals - each country is very proud to be independent, and apart of that, Lithuanians are extremely proud to have 1000 year history. |
DO greet people with a handshake, direct eye contact, and a smile. | | DON'T speak too loudly in public. |
DO arrive on time for appointments. Punctuality is important. | | DON'T wear t-shirts, shorts, sneakers, or sweats during business meetings. |
DO accept offers of hospitality and do reciprocate. | | DON'T show the bottoms of your feet. It's impolite. |
DO open doors for women, if you are male. | | DON'T point with your finger. Instead, point with your entire hand. |
DO not pick your nose in public. | | DON‘T drop litter. |
DO maintain eye contact at business meetings. | | DON'T interrupt others while they are speaking. Wait patiently for them to finish. |
DO not ask a lady her age. | | DON'T try to bring personal relationships into business. They are kept separate. |
DO remove gum, pencils, cigarettes or anything else from your mouth while talking on the phone. | | DON'T confuse a Lithuanian with being Russian. Lithuanians hate it when foreigners, unaware of the troublesome history of their country, confuse them with Russians. Praising Communism and the Soviet times would also be a major mistake in this country |